Well it’s certainly been a long spell away from this blog… Although there have definitely been some intriguing encounters in that time!! 😉 It’s also interesting for me to notice how my inner confidence has grown since I wrote this post – which has been hiding in my drafts for several years. The encounter itself was back in 2014, but it was such a wonderful and memorable one for me that I thought I really should  finally give it some light! It’s a bit long, but your choice if you want to read it.

So… my first encounter with Aff5…

What a friend and lover to have in Leo. He was looking out for potential other lovers for me and had spied a potential guy for me on a swinging site. He told me “Single male, great body… and fairly local to you Eve and sounds good”. A couple of weeks later out of the blue the same guy contacted Leo about teaming up with him and his wife. Leo asked me my thoughts on him, then seized the opportunity and phoned him back. So instead of discussing the potential for him and his wife to team up with this guy, Leo gave Aff5-to-be a synopsis of me and also quizzed him a bit on my behalf.

Leo then emailed me back …

“From his profile he says he’s 46… so you sound pretty compatible… I get the impression he’s confident and quite assured – so my instinct is that you’re in safe hands… or at least will be!.. Look he sounds really nice Eve and is up for meeting with you too, so over to you and here’s his email address… Oh and I said you might email him tonight xx”

Omg… me make a move I thought?? That was quick. For me it’s pretty much always been a male making a move on me, so it was something I was unaccustomed to. “Come on Eve” I told myself… be bold… So I bit the bullet and did. My email to Aff5-to-be started… “Hello… It’s a bit bizarre but where do I start? I’ve got a blank email canvas… to compose… Hmm what with, what threads?” I described that I normally found lovers a bit by chance. I then described that I referred to my lovers as “Affs”. I tell him I adore sex “The touches, the sparks igniting within, and both getting lost in touch, sounds and just wonderful natural fulfilling carnal connected pleasure… Mmmmm “ and I ask him what he’s looking for… I then pressed send. It was a Thursday, and I tell Leo that evening that I’d emailed Aff5-to-be back.

On Friday morning Leo then sent me some snapshots of some of 5-to-be’s validations on the swinging site. OMG… it was too late, I’d emailed this guy…

Me to Leo:

O M G …. I’m not sure I would’ve sent him an email if I’d read these earlier. They’re lovely all the comments don’t get me wrong… and I sense he’s safe to be with… But … Holy crap… I can’t express… I don’t fit in, I’m out of my league feeling. Oh well pull yourself together woman… You’ve done it, you’ve sent him an email. He may naturally decide we don’t match or want to meet up. Thanks for sending through, I guess seriously though, knowing more is a good thing. Strange reaction? It’s one thing to observe from a distance, quite another to meddle/play in this stuff…

Leo to me:

Well… it’s all part of the therapeutic nature of this… that you come to acknowledge that you are a very sexy woman.. so, it’s good that you had already sent the email and good that you get to explore what you’re telling yourself about others finding you attractive… The people on this site love sex and appear to appreciate 5-to-be’s ability to give them a pleasurable time… you’re next 😉

Certainly reading his validations made me feel safe to be with him… but still out of “his league”. Also popping into my inbox on Friday morning was a reply from Aff5-to-be. I loved his responses to my email, he obviously had a good sense of humour as well as being thoughtful and descriptive, and yes he thought it was a bit bizarre scenario too with Leo putting us in touch since Leo hadn’t met him in person… (Whereas Leo had known Aff4 in person for several years)

A few snippets from Aff5-to-be reponses:-

Out of interest what are “affs”?  affectionates? armed forces financial services? Academy of future sciences?  Amiga fast file system?  google not helping me here.

I like exploration, boundaries and edges. I am very kinesthetic, I communicate well with touch, I am not so good at knowing what someone looks like, I am very good at knowing what they feel like, how they smell and taste.

One of my favorites is to be with a woman who enjoys many men at once, and yet chooses me to be with and share with, that is so sexy.

Plus he described far out boundaries that I didn’t even know about… The “would I like to swing or go to parties with him?” Oh my… I’d only just reached low double figures in sexual partners that I’d had in my whole life. That email from him was Friday, and after a couple more exchanges we agree to meet up on the Monday. I was working away from home and we decided to meet part way for a drink at an inn…

Monday arrived:

In the lead up to Monday evening he was fairly explicit in his communications (a trait that I’ve since discovered is very him!), “little or no make-up, no perfume etc… Since I have no idea what you look like you’ll have to find me… I’ll be on my motorbike… “

Monday evening came, and I parked up in the inn’s car park, and shortly after watched a motorbike pull up. Perhaps that is him, or perhaps it isn’t? I texted and asked and he replied “Yes, come and get me” … With butterflies somersaulting inside me I got out of my car and walked over as calm and collected as I could. He smiled, lightly hugged me and kissed my cheek. With his eyes on me and smiling we then walked into the inn together. We got a round table in the corner of a fairly small area of the inn, although it had a bar in this part too. He ordered a wine and I had sparkling mineral water. I decided I needed to keep my wits about me, he wasn’t known to Leo like Aff4 was. He was quite loud and definitely very confident. (Which with me was probably a good thing in a situation like this?!) He sat on my right at the table, and then proceeded soon after to touch my leg. What?? He smiled and was just very very confident about touching. To be honest, he looked pretty edible and had an amazing smiley face. But I had no idea about “etiquette” for meeting a total stranger in a pub, especially with him knowing that you like sex etc and that’s why your meet up is happening at all… He sat close…Very close. We had a discussion as to our lives and things… To be honest, I’m not sure I said much really, and I really can’t remember much of the conversation at all. I recall seeing the menu but not reading it. I was stunned. He was soooo tactile. I’ve never been this tactile with anyone in a pub before, let alone someone I’d met that evening. He took his motorbike boots off and then continued to physically wrap his legs around my torso, and carried on chatting. He got up briefly and ordered some food… then was back by my side. My brain was in processing overload. Every touch he made I was processing… was that move ok? Am I in danger? What’s happening? Do I like? Um yes… Should I be liking? I don’t know… I was in a green sleeveless top, jeans and sandals and a brand new bra and knickers. His hand didn’t just go up the back of my top slowly and steadily… it was deliciously swooping and tenderly stroking all over my back…He then had a mini-grumph about my bra – “too tight” – well it’s new I said… flick with his fingers… bra now undone. Wtf?? My brain was struggling to keep up. I could’ve told him to stop but I just sat there pretty motionless digesting and assessing. I loved the touch, I crave touch, I don’t really get much skin to skin intimate touch in my life. So when I do it sears through me, consumes me. His left hand was up the back of my top and his right hand on my right leg caressing it. At this point my bra was riding up over my breasts and was starting to look a tad peculiar peeking out of the neckline of my top… I had a choice, I could do it up again or take it off. I nipped to the toilets, and took it off. Whilst there, I re-aligned my brain cells, had a chat with myself… took a breath and went back to our table as a “normal”, sensible and in-control me… However his hands were once again everywhere… slowly he was undoing and unravelling me… He softly whispered in my ear for me not to flinch as that was really obvious and would draw attention. He said, “People will think we’re just an amorous couple” I’m sat there relatively motionless. I had no idea I was going to get aroused like this by our encounter. I literally had no inclination and it had seriously never entered my head. In hindsight, how naïve?! I thought the most we’d do that evening was suss out whether we liked each other,  andif we did then we’d go our separate ways and meet up at a later date. But I’m sat there… with his touch stirring and igniting me… Our starters came. I ate 5 mouthfuls and it was a struggle to eat even those. The food was delicious but my mind was completely sensory flooded. There was a pause and he undid his flies, picked up my right hand and slipped it in against his hot throbbing hard cock. I could now feel this delightful hard cock pulsing and throbbing against my palm… His shirt spilled out over the top of his open flies so no-one could see. His hands were on my nipples teasing them, then his hands were inside my jeans too. He did all this with quite an adept subtleness… It wasn’t brash or blatant to anyone else. Or at least I don’t think it was?! My head swirling inside was resting in my left hand, my left elbow was on the table and my face turned up towards his face. I looked up and into his eyes. I was lost… Could he not see that…? I was totally lost… I shuddered… and had a quiet as I could orgasm sat at the table of this inn. With two bartenders “looking busy”… I couldn’t say anything but just look, I was totally spaced out and speechless. It was so so unexpected and had never entered my mind that that would happen. We paused … I then came to, in a bit of a daze and opted for a white wine spritzer which I slowly sipped, watching his smile. On reflection I was glad I’d worn jeans to meet him, as they provided some barrier, otherwise I think my knickers would’ve been off and strewn on the bar floor!! He asked “What do you want to do now Eve?” “It’s entirely up to you” he said… I was heady and my body was instinctive… After once again having a conversation with myself, I decided I wanted to find a room with him. He thought I had a room at this inn… err no… I had a hotel room about an hour’s drive away. So he enquired and they were full. I said that I’d passed another hotel on my way here, we could try that. So we did. I drove and he followed me on his bike.

We walked into the hotel, him asking me again if I was sure… I was. I still had my sports bag in my boot of my car which had deodorant etc, and infact a toothbrush. They had a room and whilst checking in and paying for the room he showed me his credit card as another form of ID as to who he was. I also memorized his address or at least his postcode too when he signed in. It was more a motel, so our room opened directly outside.

We ventured into the room and I said I needed to tell someone (Leo) where I was as he was remotely chaperoning me. He was really pleased that if I couldn’t tell my husband where I was that at least someone else knew. It was about 9:30pm when we got into the room and whilst I was writing my initial email to Leo, 5-to-be had pulled out a chilled bottle of Prosecco (gets chilled quite easily on a motorbike!), had lit and placed several tealights around the room and put same massage oil by the bed. Did make me smile, as there was I thinking we’d just suss each other out this evening to see if we liked each other e.g. minimal touch etc I literally had not considered anything else at all… whereas he obviously had incase it unfurled!! On reflection that was so sweet. I started my email to Leo, wanting to detail where I was… It was stilted.. and so 5-to-be decided to help me out and dictate it for me.

Me to Leo at 9:35pm:

<5-to-be>’s caressing my boobs right now and pressing his hard cock against my jeans,,,  oh fuck… Looks like this might be Aff5 ?!! Blush!!!

Leo to me at 9:43pm:

What?! – you’re writing emails whilst he caresses you.. ?! Concentrate… on the pleasure of it… Sounds like it’s got off to a good start… does he know he’s prospective Aff5? Enjoy Leo xx

Me to Leo at 9:55pm

Yes he’ll be aff5 … Found a best western… Near the postcode I sent you… I’ve only just ma

Of ffs he’s licking my pussy… And I’ve got to send this

Um holy um

I recall turning around after sending my 2^nd email… and actually seeing his flies undone and his stiff cock protruding from them. Yes I’d felt his cock in the inn… but seeing it… It was an Omg moment as I instinctively wriggled up the bed… to distance, to think… to use my brain and think about this… err that cock as beautiful as it is… is also massive. Logistics Eve… Quick think think think…

He thankfully pursued me… and ensured I felt safe with things, and safe to be who I sexually am. His being and touch just melted me, enabling me to relax and open up a real natural liberated feeling inside of me. What ensued I can only describe as totally erotic, mutually sexually charged, far out wild and electric… For hours!!!! The occasional sip and trickle of wine in our mouths and down our throats. Lots of smiles. Lots of noise. Even the way he managed to whip a condom on in seconds in a style I’ve never seen before was intriguing… Blimey I had the full undivided attention of a very rampant very sexy 5-to-be… OMG… He was so fit, flexible and had so much energy. I was waning long before he was. He seemed to spin me up just like that into shuddering orgasms… and then just as one was slightly subsiding he’d be focused on enticing another and another out of me. Flipping me this way and that… totally thrilled and spilled…A complete orgasmic mess… At one point with the candle flames flickering I recall I was on my back in a sort of front scissors fuck when he reached over for the massage oil… and I had this amazing oily sexual massage, over my torso, my breasts, my whole body… whilst being gently but determinedly fucked at the same time too… Sweaty, oily, slippery. My head lost but my body so so alive and carnally charged… Such amazing fuckery every which way. I also recall looking down at him as I was straddled over his cock and riding him… his face so smiley and beautiful… That was a picture I wanted to keep in my head. Likewise when we flipped back over and he looked down at me… this huge grin and so much energy…

At about 12:45am we were (ok I was!) shattered and we went to sleep… but were up fucking again at 4:20am.

At 6:20am I got up and out of bed to head off… I brushed my teeth and he came and sat on the edge of the bath and pulled me to sit on his lap. I decided that I’d head on back and have a shower there or he’d indeed fuck me again in the shower! This guy seemed to have an insatiable appetite for sex. We had so much fucking. I apologized to him that he hadn’t come. He looked up at me in surprise and said “I came loads of times Eve, didn’t you notice?” … Well from his movements, breathing and gasps I had thought he’d come but the condoms had been empty. He then said “Ah, that’s Yogi cumming for you” … (I’d never heard of that before… & subsequently looked it up… which is why he was able to endlessly fuck and fuck and fuck!!!) I then left him some money to cover a share of the room and food to which he was a bit surprised at… then he came towards me, held my arms and tuned me to look in his face and said “Please can I be Aff6?” … I didn’t reply as I was trying to assimilate the past 12 hrs… So he asked again … Him wanting to be one of my Affs? I said “No”… His face searching mine as I gave my answer. I paused and then continued… “You can be Aff5… I haven’t got a 5 yet!” … Wow I thought… he wanted to meet up again with me? Really?!! I quickly got my bits and pieces together and opened the door. I stepped outside, an enriched woman, whilst he stood there naked in the doorway grinning at me, and wanting me to kiss his cock goodbye! I blew him a kiss and hastily ran… as I thought I’d just slip back on a slippery fuckery slope again and I needed to make a move.

I drove back… on cloud 9, 10, 11… I couldn’t believe my adventure… So surreal… So amazing… He was so lovely, directive, confident but gentle, fun and courteous too. The sex was absolutely unbelievable. Had I really managed to meet such a gorgeous fit man who’s so adept at and fired up with sensual sexuality?! Wow & yes!! I had a shower at the fitness club and then headed into work. With a slight unbelievable giggle inside me, I sat down next to my colleague (who over the months of working there I’d been beginning to pick up vibes that he wanted a bit more than just colleague) …He looks at me and innocently pipes up “Did you have a good evening?” … I looked at him and calmly responded, “Yes thanks”… whilst this siren within me was screaming wildly “Omg you have no idea how good an evening and night it was…. Yes an absolutely incredible unbelievable mind-blowing sexual adventure!! I am sooooo lucky!!!”